The Fine Line Between Friends and Convenience
Are We Friends or Just Convenience Buddies?
Ah, the curious case of friendship—a perplexing entanglement that can often feel like a game of tug-of-war. Have you ever found yourself in a friendship that dances precariously on the edge of convenience? You know, those relationships where you’re the go-to guy when someone needs an IT problem solved, yet come Saturday night, you’re not even on the guest list?
When Support Turns into a Job
Take, for example, that buddy who boldly ventured into entrepreneurship. He calls you, the ever-reliable friend of convenience, to lend a digital hand. You help out, and voila! His business flourishes. But suddenly, your generous support feels less like a favor and more like a second job, minus the paycheck, of course. Watch out—when the line blurs between friendship and work, things can get messy!
Can Convenience Friendships Stand the Test of Time?
So, will these 50-50 friendships last, or are they destined to implode under the pressure? Here’s the kicker: convenience can provide a valuable foundation, but it needs a splash of genuine connection to thrive. While it’s perfectly fine to tap into these ‘friends’ for support, remember to inject some fun into the mix—letting friendship evolve beyond transactional terms is crucial. If they want to keep you as the IT Wizard, maybe you should consider charging them in pizza and friendship!
